Briefings and what's due¶

Briefings¶

Before you meet someone, ask Claude:

I'm seeing Sarah tomorrow. What's new with her?

The briefing has:

when you last saw her (your partner's meetings don't count for you),
the most recent conversations with their summaries,
current facts (outdated ones are left out),
open promises, both yours and hers,
gift ideas and other open exchanges,
upcoming dates such as her birthday,
relationships and groups,
her check-in interval, or a suggestion for one.

When the summary isn't enough, ask what exactly was said. Claude can fetch the verbatim transcript.

What's due¶

Who should I call this weekend?

Claude asks freundebuch what needs attention in the next 14 days (or any range you name):

birthdays, anniversaries and other dates,
promises with a due date (only yours count as yours; your partner's shared promises are shown with their name),
people you're overdue to see: your last meeting is longer ago than the interval you set.

Check-in intervals¶

Each person can have an interval in days: how often you want to see them. Intervals are personal. Your partner's interval for the same friend is their own, and so is "last seen".

A person with no interval is never overdue. Claude suggests an interval in briefings once there are a few meetings to go by. You can also just say "I want to see Oma Gerda every two weeks".